People know Donald Trump as an obnoxious television personality and real estate mogul. But in 2016 he became the Republican candidate for President! It was a shock to many, but no matter how you feel about him, the man is extremely influential and cannot be ignored.
For better or for worse, you share a lot of the Donald's characteristics. Winning is the most important thing -- even at the expense of alienating friends and business associations. If you were an animal, you'd be a cross between a bulldog and a shih tzu ( a bullshitter?). The nice thing is, that people seek you out because you're too well-connected to ignore.